Elly Miles announced her split from Frazer Neate in an emotional Instagram video on Friday, three months after filming The Bachelorette finale.
The 26-year-old cried that they ‘grew apart after the show’ and it was ‘really hard having the long distance’ once she returned to Newcastle, and he went back to the Gold Coast.
Watch her video below.
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And if you cba watching, here’s what Elly said:
‘I just wanted to come on here and say a couple of things. I just wanted you to hear it from me. Frazer and I are no longer together. We broke up over the weekend. I think we just grew apart after the show. It was really really hard having the distance and the secrecy and I guess everything that comes along with having a new relationship in the media … It’s a bit of a quick turnaround to go from thinking you’ve found the person you want to be with forever to being single again. I wasn’t happy for a little while there and I know from my end, I gave it absolutely everything I had.’
Touching upon rumours Frazer cheated, which he has denied btw, Elly said that wasn’t the reason they broke up, and ‘he says it’s not true but fuck who knows, honestly.’
Elly then continued by saying:
‘Having your personal life/relationship on display for the world is something you couldn’t possibly understand unless you go through it yourself … And yes, I do know that I put myself in that position but I’m still allowed to say it’s hard and that you truly can’t appreciate the weight of it until you experience it. People can be incredibly cruel so I just ask that you please be kind to us both … Obviously I am very disappointed and devastated at the whole outcome but what can you do. I know I can look back and know I did everything I could to try to make it work so that’s good enough for me.’